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The Webs We Get Stuck in -with Ana Luisa
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The Webs We Get Stuck in -with Ana Luisa

conversations with stoic mamas along the way

This conversation is part of a special series in which I talk with other moms determined to find healthy ways of navigating gender ideology in their homes. Moms whose stories and strategies may inspire you.


Ana Luisa—who gave permission to use her real name and leave in any details she shares—applied to be a guest on the podcast because, in her words, ‘Perhaps having a "foreigner" perspective…can be enriching.’ I certainly found this to be true and appreciated Ana Luisa’s unique descriptions of the precarious challenges of accompanying a child who is coming of age in today’s world—a world going through its own painful evolution. How so many of us are trying to navigate without a map, burdened with backpacks of labels, and how sometimes we have to give up our visions of “a life full of mangoes” and move toward the scary unknown to continue to walk alongside our children.

She brings up the framework of Non-Violent Communication (NVC), a communication process developed by clinical psychologist, Marshall Rosenberg in the last century. NVC is a needs-based communication tool that aims to increase empathy and understanding in conversation.

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Discussion about this podcast

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At this point, I have embraced this destabilizing, sometimes excruciating, sometimes wondrous experience of having a trans-IDed child as “curriculum of the soul.” Because I can’t help but imagine how different the world might be if we could all take the hardest thing in our lives and view it as this, as curriculum of the soul. Practitioners of Stoicism might say, "the obstacle is the way." These are my conversations and reflections--along the way.