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Update 11/4/22: I’m not in a hurry to give this letter to my daughter; she’s expressed plans to move but they’re loose plans, and I know this move is at least several months away if not more. I want to spend some time consulting my inner wisdom. While I respect my daughter’s therapist and have much gratitude that she communicates with me so openly, I want to be careful not to let her thoughts override my own expertise and intuition. I’ll keep you posted with how this ends up playing out.
She’s got this. I got this. and mindf*#k were written since the 11/4 update and continue to update this story. I’ve still never given her this letter.
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Another letter to my daughter that I intend to give her. I’m not sure it’s finished. And it’s entirely strategic. It’s a risky approach, yet I think there are examples of it working. I want to believe that the success of the approach will be in the energy of it. It cannot be perceived as a challenge but rather, an invitation. And the trickiest part? You’ve got to go into it being okay with however it turns out. I’m still working on getting there…
This is my invitation so far. I’d love feedback! I think it’s important to strike a balance between my truth and openness to her experience. I want to be careful to not make her feel guarded or challenged. More at the end on what I’m going for, so if you’re feeling inclined to help me perfect this letter, you can leave comments. Jeez, this is terrifying! It’s the leap of faith I’ve been working toward…