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Julia Mason MD's avatar

Wow, that's a lot. I agree, your daughter is both choosing you (her family) and projecting all her doubts onto you. It's easier to have external reasons for not moving on with your life, for not having accomplished all the things you "should" be accomplishing.

Kids are avoiding adulthood all over. I have so many patients who are 18, 19, 20 years old but don't have their driver's license yet. (I think this is more common in the urban kids - there are many ways to get around Portland without a car.)

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Erin E.'s avatar

Thank you for sharing a little of your life. It felt like we were talking on the phone while I tend to the fire in my fireplace! I am so sorry for your loss and will pray for your big family. Have a healing trip :-)

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