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T Averitt's avatar

That you from sharing these eloquent writings. They are a first step to living happier and healthier than I have in a long time. I can now see a glimpse of light at what seems a long, dark and unending tunnel.

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Bluejay's avatar

I’ve been working on looking past the outward appearance of my daughter’s half male transformation (can’t really tell if she’s a young male or female.) When I hear her new hoarse voice I think to myself it’s just a part of the autism in her that I’ve always been dealing with. I’ve had to accept her agency to choose her path in life and just let go. She’s now nineteen.

I still send her articles occasionally so she can be exposed to the other side and hopefully one day critically rethink her path, but that doesn’t immediately show any improvements. I still tell her I love her forever. She needs to know that love reaches past our disagreements.

I wish I never gave her a cell phone in middle school, I wish I took her out of public school, I wish I never sent her to therapy, but I didn’t know then how badly this evil cult was taking over the world. I didn’t realize how glued she would continue in the wacky ideology. It’s been five years now.

I’m now just watching and waiting for her to come to a true realization, but she’ll probably go through some self inflicted pain first to later see how this ruined her.

Life isn’t free of pain. Acceptance is freeing.

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